Every January, before classes begin, we start the spring semester by taking a retreat to St. Meinrad. This is an opportunity for brotherhood, prayer, and learning before heading back to regular seminary life. One of my biggest takeaways from this year’s retreat was that a central duty of parish priests is to “gather the family of God.” Of course, this happens at Mass and in the Eucharist, but as our retreat director pointed out, this takes place many times outside the formal bounds of sacraments. In the coffee and donut Sundays, in the prayer vigils and catechesis, potluck dinners, and parish picnics, it is the priest whose gathering presence can and should be felt. It is all part of being a true shepherd to your flock and father to your children.
This gave words to an experience from my own life over this last Christmas break. At the parish office, I watched the pastor gather his staff together in one of the large meeting rooms. As we entered into a simple morning prayer and sharing of intentions, I had the distinct sensation of “family.” It pulled me right back to the living room I grew up in, with siblings sprawled out on assorted furniture, some still rubbing sleep out of their eyes, as we began, “In the name of the Father…”
God is family. The Trinity is family. We all share in this, and it is the priest, in a special way, who gathers everyone together. Praise be to God that parish priests are humbly gathering the family of God together because, truly, if they did not, who would? In a quiet moment today, I invite you to give thanks to God for a time you experienced a pastor in your life gathering you into the family of God.